We rarely admit it, but every escort has their favourite client. Reaching this special status has less to do with how you look or how much you spend, and far more to do with how you behave and how you make us feel during our time together. When you treat us with consideration, respect, and basic human decency, everything flows more naturally and becomes more enjoyable for both of us. There is a certain preferred decorum, and being polite and thoughtful is absolutely key. The following advice will guide you towards becoming a London escort’s favourite client.
Be Clean and Fresh
Good hygiene is one of the simplest and most powerful ways to show respect. Most escorts will expect you to shower once we arrive so that you are at your cleanest and freshest. Even if you have showered earlier in the day, a quick wash before things begin makes a huge difference after travel, work, or simply moving around.
Please have clean towels ready and keep your bathroom reasonably tidy. A fresh bar of soap, a nice-smelling shower gel, and a clean, uncluttered space all help set a relaxed tone.
It’s also a good idea to shave just before your date so that your skin is smooth and soft rather than rough and prickly. Stubble can cause redness or irritation on our skin, especially during kissing or prolonged close contact. If you prefer to keep facial hair, at least trim and neaten it so it feels intentional and cared for rather than neglected.
Fresh breath is another important detail. Brushing your teeth, using mouthwash, and having mints or chewing gum to hand (which you dispose of before the date actually begins) can make intimate moments much more pleasant. Avoid strong-smelling foods, heavy garlic, or excessive alcohol beforehand, as these can be off-putting.
When you take the time to present yourself as clean and well-groomed, you show that you value the experience and our comfort as much as your own.
Don’t Make Us Ask For Payment
Discussing or asking for money can feel awkward for everyone involved, but it is an essential part of this arrangement. A considerate client doesn’t wait for us to raise the subject or remind them of what is due.
Ideally, have the payment prepared in advance so that it can be handled discreetly as soon as we arrive. Many escorts prefer that you place the agreed-upon amount in an envelope or card and leave it in a clearly visible spot—on a table, desk, or bedside unit—so that it can be acknowledged and put away quickly without a long conversation.
This simple gesture signals that you understand and respect professional boundaries and that you will not make the financial side of the encounter uncomfortable or drawn out. It also helps build trust: when the business aspect is dealt with smoothly and promptly, we can both relax and focus on enjoying our time together rather than worrying about negotiations or reminders.
Please note that delays or hesitation around payment can feel disrespectful and may put us on edge. By taking responsibility for this part of the interaction, you ensure that the date begins on a positive and reassuring note.
Consider Our Needs and Desires
While we are providing you with a paid service, it is important to remember that we are real women with feelings, boundaries, preferences, and moods—not robots or inanimate toys. Treating us as human beings rather than objects will always create a far better experience.
We have our own needs and desires, and when you take these into account, it becomes easier for us to fully relax, engage, and give you our best. Think of the experience as a shared encounter rather than a one-sided performance.
Take time to connect at the beginning of the date. Light conversation, a genuine smile, and a few minutes spent getting to know each other can make a huge difference. Ask simple, respectful questions and actually listen to the answers. You don’t need to pry into our personal lives, but showing curiosity about our comfort and preferences is very welcome.
When it comes to intimacy, try to help us prepare and build up to the “main event” instead of rushing. Foreplay, gentle touch, and gradual escalation help both of us feel more at ease and more involved. Pay attention to our body language and verbal cues—if we seem hesitant or uncomfortable, slow down or change approach. Consent and comfort must always come before any specific fantasy or request.
If there are particular things you would like to try, discuss them calmly and respectfully rather than assuming they are included. Many escorts have clear boundaries about what they do and do not offer. Being understanding of those limits, rather than pushing against them, is one of the quickest ways to earn our respect and appreciation.
The more relaxed we are and the more we genuinely enjoy ourselves, the better we will be able to perform, and the more natural and satisfying the encounter will feel for you. A client who cares about our experience as well as their own stands out immediately—and is far more likely to become a favourite.
In Summary
Becoming a preferred client is not about perfection or extravagance; it is about respect, care, and attentiveness. Arrive clean and well-groomed, handle payment smoothly and without prompting, and consider our needs and comfort throughout the date. Do these things consistently, and you will not only receive a warmer reception but also enjoy richer, more relaxed, and more memorable experiences with the escorts you see.
