Sometimes when I meet with a client, I end up just meeting him at his hotel room or his home, and we get right down to business – if you know what I mean. This can be convenient, especially if he has had a long day at work or on the road and simply wants to relax in a private, comfortable setting. There’s very little small talk; everything feels direct and straightforward, and we can both focus on exactly why we are there.
The Charm of Going Out on a Date
However, other times, a client and I will go on a date somewhere first, which is really quite lovely and can make the whole experience feel much more special. Meeting in public for a drink or a meal creates a sense of anticipation and gives us the chance to ease into things. It helps to build up the sexual tension in a natural way and also allows us to relax, laugh, and get to know each other on a more personal level. Instead of rushing straight into intimacy, we can enjoy the slow burn of flirting, eye contact, and playful conversation.
Stuck for Date Ideas?
Are you stuck for date ideas? There are plenty of fun and memorable things that you could do with your expensive escort before you head back to your room. For example, you might:
• Go to see a movie – Sitting side by side in a dark cinema, sharing popcorn and brushing hands now and then, creates an easy, low-pressure atmosphere. The film gives you something to talk about afterwards and can help break the ice if you feel nervous.
• Listen to live music in a bar or pub – Whether it’s a jazz club, a cosy pub with an acoustic set, or a trendy lounge with a DJ, music creates a shared experience. You can sit close together, talk between songs, and let the rhythm set a relaxed, sensual mood.
• Enjoy dinner at a great restaurant – A long, unhurried meal with good food and wine is perfect for conversation. You can learn more about each other’s interests, careers, travels, and fantasies. A candlelit table or a quiet corner can make the setting feel intimate without being too intense.
• Go for a stroll and window shop – Walking through a lively neighbourhood, browsing shop windows or stopping to look at interesting displays, gives you a chance to talk without the pressure of sitting face-to-face the whole time. The casual setting makes it easy to flirt, share stories, and simply enjoy each other’s company.
• Visit art galleries or museums – Wandering through a gallery or museum together can be surprisingly romantic. You can comment on the artwork, share opinions, and get a sense of how the other person thinks and feels. It creates a more sophisticated atmosphere and can lead to deeper, more thoughtful conversations.
• Indulge her sweet tooth – Taking her out for ice cream, dessert, or to a local chocolate shop can be playful and charming. Sharing treats, feeding each other a bite, or laughing over which flavours to choose makes the mood light-hearted and fun while still being flirtatious.
Thinking Outside the Box
You can also think a little outside the box: a sunset walk along the waterfront, a ride on a Ferris wheel, a cocktail-making class, or even just finding a quiet spot in a park to sit and talk. The point isn’t to impress her with something extravagant; it’s to create a relaxed, enjoyable atmosphere where you both feel comfortable.
Setting the Mood for Later
By spending some time together on a romantic date before you become intimate, you’ll have the opportunity to practise your dating skills, build your confidence, and learn how to connect with a woman genuinely. You’ll create shared memories, inside jokes, and a stronger sense of chemistry. All of this will help to set the mood beautifully for your encounters later in the evening, making the time you spend together feel more natural, exciting, and deeply satisfying for you both.
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